Deb Deb Deb - pure anti db'ing - you're trying to control him. Stop. Let go. Thank him for the offer and say "it's ok I said I'd take care of it". Dont crazymake it into a liason. It may be, but you're pushing him away.
Stop.
2x4 - thwack.
Bill.
"you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant
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