Azzork, I found the 5 loving languages, and will start that immediately.
So you know, I am starting working on myself I have for a couple days now. So far I have a way to shake the "visions" and when I start thinking about the stuff. My buddy (talking about something different) explained the "no more, stoppit" technique. He explained the science behind it and it works. I am working on keeping my confidence, and getting my "happy" back. I've always been a happy happy happy guy. I'm trying to clear my mind, with little moments of meditation to speak to myself, clear my mind. Try to escape the feelings of loss and loneliness. I send myself messages propping myself up and such. I speak to myself ALOT. I'm working on me. It's my priority.
I can't make her do anything, it's up to her. I hope she's willing to do it.
