Sunny, Maybell, and V - thank you all so much for responding. The last time I talked to H about the trip I forgot to add that I did offer to give him another night instead and that it would be easier than him having to get up extremely early for us to leave Wed. I have said and offered all I am willing to, I won't negotiate against myself. I think I will give him through Saturday to see if he says anything and then maybe a gentle reminder that we leave in X number of days...

Maybell - I agree with you wholeheartedly that bringing it up again will make me look weak which is why I wasn't sure what to do. I need to keep my ground. I have been doing really well with that lately. Our parenting plan is set and technically I don't get him until Wednesday for Thanksgiving break (I get the odd years). I am not sure what would happen if I showed up Tuesday night to take him but it would NOT be good for me.


Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15