I want to also add, I may have done a boat load of growing. In fact I know I did. I've come a long way but there is also a long road ahead of me. BUT, I would not be where I am without each and every one of you! This place has been my go to place since I found it. I used to go to friends, family, anybody that would listen to my sappy self. That helped nothing, it only gave people a one sided story to base their own opinion from. Then it would relay back to XF in dribs and drabs, partial truths and more than anything, pressure. I come here and vent. I come here for 2x4's. And I appriciate everybody here taking time out of their own messed up lives (no offense, but that's why we are all here haha) to help me get mine back on track. I love you all!


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home