thanks Rottzilla! I needed to hear somebody agree with that, I think. I just posted on your thread, love your discussion topic for today !
I have to tell about something my H said Thurday night when we were having our "not seeing OW" discussion. My H sees himself as such a "rebel"....and he made the comment "I just don't follow the scenarios, I'm just not like them". I had no clue what the heck he was talking about, and asked what he meant....he said, "you know, in your book, I just don't respond like the people in the scenarios" (meaning DR)...Actually, I had to work to keep from smirking or laughing out loud...he has obviously snuck my book and read almost the whole thing (SNOOPING!!!!!!) and....if he only knew how incredibly predictable the stuff he says and does is. I am always amazed at how similar all the WA's here on the board sound!!!!! Anyway, I was cool enough to just keep a straight face and look at him and nod...didn't even say anything to my Mr. Unique!
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