Up, it may run counter to DB, but if you felt that an ultimatum was necessary then I am happy that you did it. Whether you liked the outcome or not. But, I would bet that you, and OM, just triggered the loss that Sandi always talks about. Hopefully you will now be able to live for yourself and she may come to her senses. It would feel awesome to be the one making the decisions, wouldn't it!

Keep up the good work and enjoy that boy!


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3 boys
Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....