Hi havhope, I hope you don't mind me stepping here and asking a question. I saw the quote below from Sandi and wondered this - if my W won't let me in enough to show her, then how will she ever see? I feel so much better about who I am now and where I am headed - and I feel like the old me in so many ways again. Although that was a long time ago, I feel that I am in that spot - but she doesn't see it. All she wants to do is nitpick and whatever...

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"Won't she think I'm rude"? Really!? The H is worried that his wayward wife will think he's being rude? This is an example of how out of kelter the R has been for a long time. The H has to find the man he was designed to be. Women love manly men. That which sets him apart from her. Women may never tell their H what they really want, instead they tell them a bunch of other stuff he wasn't doing. Deep down, she wants that guy that makes her melt all the way down to her toes. What happen to guy? Where did he go? Can he be revived?

There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.