Looks like you got your charms with the ladies even online. So, my friend it is a matter of time and letting this same time to heal the deep wounds left from a horrible separation.
There is still the fact that even not seeing much hope with your M it is still a possibility of a wonderful reconciliation.
Time goes by, all things start settling and who knows, maybe the spark that was there one day start coming back and you may have your beautiful family altogether again.
Hope your W is a little better by now. The ADs should be working to help her to have a bit more consistence and think more clearly of the whole situation. If they don't, then she may need to go back to her doctor and find out if she needs to change, increase dosage.
It's sad to even think that people take their decisions without looking into the big picture of consequences. I see it in my XH most of the time. The guilt, shame, the turmoil of the whole destruction, financial instability, loneliness, desperation.
I really hope that your W get back to her senses. Life is not perfect, people are not perfect, but as a family we can find the strength to conquer it all. Maybe she will find this kind of value inside herself and will treasure what she built long ago.
About you, what can I say. Life will probably smile to you again because the ladies are like bears fighting for the honey. By the way, it just shows how many ladies like the "family guy", not perfect, but with strong family values.
Hope you and V can meet and have a good chat. It will help both of you. I love V and her sense of reality, always calling people out of their nonsense, she is a wise woman that has a lot of life experience. Please, drink that cold beer for me.
