No I nkow it's 50/50.. I'm not blaming her for everything, but the going outside the marriage part is what I meant.
as I told her, if we are going to do this :WE need to have a better marriage. WE need to work on US individually and together. It's a team. I take full stock in my shortcomings, man enough to admit it. But she has to be willing to too.
I'm a humble man, I am not perfect. I have plenty of faults. I also have always tried to be the best husband and father.
