I think that it is very hard for your wife to realize she has been replaced and feels ignored. (In my opinion the worst feeling) Hard to comprehend or empathize because she is the one that initiated all this and her motives do not seem to be out of remorse but some type of inner issue. Need for control? Challenge of getting you back from another woman?
Sounds like she is making comments about child, just to get some type of reaction from you, because something is better then nothing. Almost like a child seeking negative attention. She needs to prove to herself that she can still invoke some type of emotional response from you. I hope she gets the help she needs.
It seems like you are trying your hardest to not get dragged into this game she is playing and I commend you for it. It's a challenge to be the bigger person when someone is clearly pushing buttons. But the good thing is that you can detach and remain happy.
I reread your post about letting go of anger torwards her regarding infidelity and I am just so impressed with your refusal to succumb to bitterness and punishment.
I hope you will continue to post.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
