Hey Fogg,

So you are saying I need to back off more? Do I need to take my ring off now? What else could I possibly do? So I have to send her the message that I am moving forward,that I am detached?

I asked her to go to the Christmas party because she missed it every year because she works, this year she doesn't work so I asked if she wanted to go.


She is acting like I have moved forward by not including me in events anymore. So I think its message received on her end.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016