My wife had an affair..

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I have a life! I train brazilian jiu jitsu everyday it's my lifes passion.. it's the only thing thats made me happy for the last 3 years ...

ktfo -
Im sorry you are here.
Have you read DB or DR yet?

Also, the "Get a Life" thing is not to say you hae 'no' life. But it's extremely important to rebuild your self worth and self confidence at a time like this. And the best way to do that is to start new hobbies and make new friends. Have you looked into that?