Can ALL marriages be saved Vol. 3

[Mona52]

I know it is frustrating. I do not think anything you say or do with get through to him that he is living in fantasy land. You will be able to get assistance for D if it gets bad.

I know daycare is so expensive. I had three in daycare when I landed a part time clerical job. There was no way I could have found a job to pay for 3 kids in daycare, the daycare would have cost more than my paycheck. So I got assistance for daycare and was able to work part time. Then I got a couple hundred a month in child support. With that I was able to get my own tiny place for the kids and me.

I wont lie, it was hard. It was terrible. But it opened new doors for me I never dreamed of. I learned a skill, and then an entire world opened.

If money is your issue, then search for money solutions. They are there, in places you never dreamed of looking. You have to stay and watch D, maybe you can watch a few more children during the day for money? I don't know if you have a hobby you can sell or, and this is way out there, what did you always WANT to be when you grew up? Doctor, lawyer, Indian chief? Truly you can do anything you want if you just take small baby steps towards it.