Hey Rottzilla, you know how you were talking about tuning into behaviors and not just words? I got a weird email from my H about noon wanting to know if I got a new vehicle bought for him...he's been talking about needing to get something different, which he does--his has lots of miles on it....I had mentioned seeing something over the weekend that he might like. we talked about possibilities, I didn't take it as a right now kind of thing, but from the lunch-hour emails, this guy is dead serious and in a hurry.... then it occured to me. He has, I know, taken OW's nice new shiny SUV out of town to conferences, and of course she goes w/him....maybe part of it is he's seeing this as a way to gain more distance from her? weird....I wonder if that's it... we have a nice mini-van, but of course that's not cool for a MLC'er! at all! I remember him actually telling his BIL that no woman would ever look at him again if he got a mini-van. guess I should have been tuned in to that comment, too!
Ok, so I need to find him a RED SUV!!!! NOW! (and cheap, haha!)
