Thanks Sotto. I know I should think of her like that but after having known her for 25 years I find it hard to do so. Especially when she initiates. I'm still trying gauge what is best for me. It is has only been a month and I still haven't given up hope. Working on myself but she is still in my thoughts way too much. I'm trying not to let her cake eat. She hasn't been back to the home in a month, she only sees me once a week and her son only lets her see him twice a week as a taxi service. I know she doesn't like her new house, doesn't see that much of the OM during the working week. I want to give her time to think what she has lost and if the new r is worth it. Trying to keep myself out of the picture as much as possible. Not sure if giving up our class would help or if it is good to see the progress I'm making for me. Lost weight, gone out, running races etc.
