Good, good points, Rottzilla! H is so upset be feeling that I don't trust him and check up on him that he has punished me by not telling me he wasnt seeing her. if indeed it's true and he isnt' seeing her, but the religious ed class deal makes me think he must not be for a little while anyway. and some of his comments add to that.... now that I have myself thoroughly confused!
I am putting a lot of my focus on trying to let him know that i appreciate and want him and enjoy him while backing off....I think it seems to be working....gotta check out that one book, though
