Thanks Sandi. I've read so many of your wonderful posts around the site. My problem is I don't know what sort of contact to have with her. She says she feels that I am special for her, that she wants as much contact as I'll let her, she would like to do things as the the three of us ( something that S15 doesn't want at this time). When we meet once a week for class we always finish with hugs and kisses. I am friendly but keep pointing out she is with OM and I imagine she'd want to do things with him. Her response is she doesn't talk about us with him and she can do what she wants. She wants to see us more, especially her son. I'm not initiating contact but she does sometimes. I'm brief but friendly. What do I to make her realize that we are not there for when he is working or she wants to play happy families.?
