Quote: Now that I am truly learning to "listen" to what he acts out, I am learning so much more about my H than I ever thought possible. I am becoming more intimate with him now than before.
You are so right about that...If I had had enough "horse sense" to tune into his actions, and to read between the lines of what he said, I cant help but think I wouldnt be in this mess now...
I just hope he keeps on "not seeing her"....it would give that a chance to cool down, and me a better chance to get things rolling along on my end.....I am so afraid it will fire back up again, if in truth he isn't seeing her. except i KNOW he wasnt with her this weekend....unless he snuck out in the middle of the night, and I really think he was too tired! I get the impression he is trying to keep himself busy/occupied/distracted. I gotta help by getting him his dream weight room!
