I am definitely putting the rules into play. I had 7 months of in house after BD. It was very difficult. I now have a sep agreement signed as of Nov 1. If we go by that date then I have 1 year until a D is allowed. I hope to really take full advantage of this time for me and see where this all goes. I have to admit I still hope it works out for us to be together but I am planning for the worst.

Fine line to balance here.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15