Things are going great in life. I am keeping busy with work and play. J and I took off for the weekend just the two of us, no kids. It was a fun time and I really enjoy her company. It was almost a year ago that my WW asked for a divorce (quickly saying let's take a month to "work" on us) and I can't believe how good things are.
As for the WW. She has become resentful, spiteful, bitter and angry. She has been attempting to latch onto any of my friends who will talk to her. It's even gotten as bad as she started attending my church (she went about 5 times from December to February then quit all together) and attempted to tell me to find a different place of worship. She is essentially upset that I no longer care about her opinion (unless it has to do with the kids) as well as the fact that I no longer listen to anything she says.
I realize that I am the one in control now, not her. I am not trying to get back together with her and I have said that to her countless times (no matter how often she says it's the case, she is finally realizing it's not). I am not sure what the end game is going to be, I do not trust her or believe anything she says. She will attempt to be the victim and perp depending on her mood and who she is with.
She still jabs at me, most recently about J's 7 year old daughter who attends a school for the gifted. My WW started making fun of her in front of myself and my kids, I looked at her and said "Wow, you must really be proud of yourself for making fun of a beautiful, intelligent, sweet 7 year old..." She didn't respond.
It's really sad to me to see her like this. I kind of knew it would happen, be it she is jealous (she has a bf still, I think?) or realizes that she made a mistake. At the end of the day, I am happy. My kids are happy and that is all that matters to me.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
