Hi Rottz, thanks for the input. I don't know what I'd do with out it. I feel in my heart like H is really making a big concious effort to work on the M, and I'm sure it's hard for him, unfortunately for me he sees OW as much more than just a fling.

I surprised at how scared I am....that just strikes me as really weird.

trust him to do the right thing....It does seem like he's heading in that direction, in his own time frame and route...


been around awhile!