Hi Uphill - so OM dumped XF did he? Maybe the sitch was putting a little too much pressure on him and he bailed. And he has a GF already??

Well, he clearly didn't have much staying power did he? No great surprise I would say. I would also say, don't set too much store by this - my H and his OW have been on-off-on a number of times. I think many R's that start in a 'hasty' way are rather tumultuous and dramatic. There may be on's and off's to come yet. Things truly have to run their course I think.

For now, I would stay right off the subject. Your XF gave you her answer and you are moving forward, along with your S at this point. If XF want's back in, she'll need to dig pretty deep I think and I don't sense she's at that point just yet.....in time, who knows...

Take care, you've had some rides on the rollercoaster lately my friend. Time to relax with an ice cream I think xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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