H has started an affair 2

[twinmom]

Good job but in my opinion you need to set a few more boundaries. ... what days/times is he to be at the house and if it is not during that time he needs to find somewhere else to be. Also financial, get a budget / plan on paper and figure out who pays for what. I still suggest legal separation so he can't blow all $$$.... this way the $$ you are entitled to will be taken directly out of his check.