otw,
Fake it til you make it. Thoughts lead to actions, actions lead to reality.

Why does W get to decide Thanksgiving? If nothing has been said I think you should make plans for you and kids and leave her out of it.

It sounds like you had fun at the wedding. Please remember, W doesn't want to be there. Why would you want someone around who doesn't want to be with you? It's her loss. It's a hard pill to swallow but it helps me to keep reminding myself of this.

Your awesomeness and the work you're doing on better yourself is attracting other women. Get use to it. There will be more.

Keep being awesome


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place