We are exactly at similar stage. I was down two days before, then felt better, then down again yesterday, today picked myself up! This is tougher than the first stages of DBing as you are already experiencing. This will really test our patience, yeah.
Hang in there, I am too. Things also look bleak for me, but all hope is not lost. I've done lots of things which I am not proud of, didnt listen to people's advise but I am still moving strong and not yet throw in the towel. I've told him my feelings, my hurt, my analysis of the whole thing, been weak and needy, did that work? NOPE! All didnt work. For a while things were great between us was when my PMA is up, no R talks, no snooping and act as if. Whats new? Except that I was too stubborn to listen to people and choose to try it for myself. Yeah I've failed big time!
Continue to be patient. This is killing us I know, what more when our Hs dont seem to get it that we are hurt and breaking to pieces, hang in there....the light at the end of tunnel is dim, but there is light anyway...
Take care..
Sometimes the very thing you're looking for is the one thing you can't see..
