Sadly Mona, I quit school when I moved to the US. And I never really found my niche. Just bounced around from crappy jobs, sometimes I had long periods of making no money. And it's all coming back to bite me in the a$$ now.
Plus childcare here is so expensive, I'll have to make pretty good money in order for it.
He was talking about all the papers we need to file/sign for the divorce. How it will take a long time, we'll need to go in front of a judge etc. He needs to feel we are making concrete steps towards resolving this.
He keeps saying we have no money, we'll have a cash flow problem when I move in January. We won't get the deposit for our current apt back until after we're supposed to put one down for the new place. Last week he bought $400 boots. This is a consistent pattern of his.