But how do I get that through to him? Because he is traveling for work he can't really see a therapist. We also can't afford it. I can't talk to him, because he's made up his mind about everything, so unless I just validate what he says, we will argue. And I don't want to fight with him.
He's been under immense stress for years. A lot of it because of me. I take full responsibility for that. He says no one is looking out for him, so he has to before it's too late. He also said it wouldn't benefit me if he suddenly quits his job and moves somewhere else, i.e. I need to get a job soon and not rely financially on him. He's just not taking into account that I'm also taking care of our D, so I can't just go get any job.
He said he never should have run the marathon when his knee was so messed up, (no $h!t Sherlock) but he needed the pain to manifest physically instead. And now he can't run at all. Running used to be his outlet.
He also INSISTS that he also get a 1 bedroom apartment when we move, he wants to have a decent place, not just a studio. The problem is we can't afford two decent 1 bedrooms. I don't understand why he can't make do with a studio. He's always working and traveling anyways. The only reason I need a 1br is because I will live with our D full-time.
I just don't know what to make of all this. Can it be a MLC? I guess not when it's been underway for years. Whatever it is I don't think he's ever gonna wake up from it.
