Can ALL marriages be saved Vol. 3

[Mona52]

Gmum,
You did great. These talks are so worrisome before they happen, then when they are done, we are so confused. The reason is, we are expecting the talk to be some kind of decision. WAS is finally saying goodbye, period, OR WAS is going to say they want to try again.

We torture ourselves for ever before the talk guessing what will be said. We think the best and the worst.

Then the talk comes and it is full of craziness. The talk is all about our WAS and they go on about how bad life is for them!

I doubt he made any decisions about the future during you talk, did he? I am certain he was doom and gloom about the future, but he never actually made any firm, real decisions, did he?

He can't make any real decisions right now because he is in a fantasy world.

I hear your biggest concern is money. You can fix that concern on your own. It stinks, it is hard, no one will help you, but if that is your biggest concern, then you know how you need to focus your GAL activities. You can start real small. Is there a hobby you can make money off of?

Just think how your life might possibly be if you earned x amount a week all by yourself. Make x anything, the number does not matter as long as you put a number in there. Imagine your life with that money if he does not come back, and if he does.