Just processing the latest news from this morning a little bit. OM was told that I gave XF a deadline and she had a lot of thinking to do. I think (mind reading) it it to real for him when she picked him? The way she said it, it wasn't her choice so I'm pretty sure he bailed because he wasn't looking to take it any further...

Just getting my thoughts to paper.

Last edited by Uphill; 11/16/15 01:58 PM.
Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home