I agree, Ancaire. For most of us, our bad judgment was what brought us here.
But after DB we will be full of good judgment and spread it all around us.

Today I am feeling fine. Its Monday morning and I already smiled and laughed.
Saturday was diabetes day, so today my organization is organizing measurements of glucose and blood pressure.
I just came from the doctor and I am in excellent condition. Glucose and blood pressure are just fine.
My BMI (body mass index) is 21. The doctor said I am exactly in the middle of the average.
And then he said: "You need to tell your colleagues what you're doing because whatever you're doing you're doing it very well."
I just smiled.
I left and went back to work with two close colleagues. I told them what the doctor had said and then added: "The secret to good health is to get a divorce". We all laughed.


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15