Mahhhty it is so easy to look at what we do with DB'ing as weakness as it goes against what our pride and our friends and seemingly our whole popular culture tells us to do. But it truly is the stronger and most loving route to take.

I love your letters. I have been following your thread and have read your letters a few times. You definitely deserve to be on the receiving end of one of them. You deserve the love, compassion, and kindness that you have extended time and time again to your W.