Judy - it was chocolate chip cookie dough!!!! I too wish we could sit together a really talk. Sometimes I am just too emotionally exhausted to even type. Anyway, I hope your time with your mother will be good for you. I know my mother and sisters have been my lifeline through all this - and of course, my kids.
I have been thinking a lot about your last few words "no matter what, just stay true to who you are" - this has really stuck with me. I am the better person in all this and the kids know it. Even tonight they are all home - we had a family dinner - roast with all the fixings - hearing them all in this house... This is family, this is love and H is missing all this and is in some dumpy apartment with OW who is co planning about me
