I wonder too. There is no doubt H is seeing that I am cutting ties one by one and learning to take care of things on my own without asking for help...bringing up spending holidays separate with no gift exchange....it speaks volumes not only to him but to myself and where I am at....

I too wonder if and or how this effects him.....


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-