Interesting interactions this afternoon and evening.
W came home about 4pm . The boys and I were out bowling.
We got back, our guest arrived , and I cooked Sunday dinner ( something I'm good at and like to do - it reminds me of moms home cooked food)
Later after boys in bed and guest had gone home, I was in office and W sought me out to watch TV with her.
We were both on sofa and several times she put one foot/ left up on sofa very close to mine. In the past she would put both feet on top of my legs wanting a foot rub. I had to resist grabbing her foot/ lower leg.
Then she asked if I could get grocery shopping tomorrow. Pre BD this was my job, but since BD she has tried to be 'independent' and do it herself. Now she is asking me.
Later on she sought me out to say goodnight. This is the first time , it's usually been me seeking her out.
Little signs maybe?? Maybe not?? Either way I'm so much more detached than 2 weeks ago. I have GAL activities lined up on Mon, Tues, Wed, Sat and Sun and a parents evening at S11 school with W on Thurs. Busy week ahead. No time to dwell on W.
Space, time, detach and GAL. Let's make a picnic !
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
