Just a couple of thoughts ok. If you think of WH as the enemy he will be one and respond like one. Can we reframe this a little? Can we think of WH as an ally in battle but one we think may be uncertain of?
In the same way that the elves and dwarves are in the hobbit movies? They fight together but are really wary of each other.
I know you will be an elf!
We are all made of parts, one of mine is Plain Vanilla another is Screaming Banshee. You have dutiful wife and organised mom together with Ms Proper and of course wild child (you call them, these are example names). These parts don't disappear they just have different roles at different times. There is no need to mourn, wild child is ready to get her party shoes and glad rags whenever you ask.
What other parts do you have?
You can Google Genie Laborde or John Rowan, this is well established psychological theory now. I do love it.
Your can embrace dutiful wife she keeps you centered and organised. But she isn't the only part of you.
We aren't talking about multiple personalities, just parts of ourselves we express or have in us. Some split these into shadow characters and higher spirits.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 11/15/1510:10 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
