Thank you Anicaire. It feels strange, all of this, though.
I've spent so long trying to fit in with everyone else, trying to make sure people liked me and I didn't upset or offend anyone...I guess making myself invisible.
Now, I don't know. I'm finding I care less what other people think about me. I'm started to feel more connected to my inner self. I'm finding it easier to be with other people, whereas before I felt overcome with shyness and worry about saying the right thing, or giving the right impression.
I mean, is it that simple? You just give voice to your inner self? And that either draws people to you, or not?
Originally Posted By: pho
He also had an egocentric outlook, always had, but in a way that he always thought he was a victim.
Yeah, my H thinks he's the victim too. Of his feelings, and of his circumstances (which are actually all of his own making) *rolls eyes*
