Friday morning H didn't get home for kids so that I can go to work. I would have dropped them off at SIL, but I just called work and took the kids out to the zoo. I kept my phone off because I really didn't want to talk to H. I saw H was calling and texting later, apologizing H was late because he got too drunk the night before and how he hasn't been drinking all week and it won't happen again blah blah blah..... I just didn't reply. H went to work later and didn't call or text again all weekend to even check in for kids. I just wonder if he is not even worried about his kids whereabouts??

Then H hasn't been home all weekend. H hadn't been home all night during the week either,so I'm sure he is staying with OW. The last time I heard, OW is sharing a room with someone else, but maybe that person is moved out or something.
But H hasn't told me anything about him moving out, all his stuff is here and so is his dog( I asked him to take it if he moves out) I feel like throwing all his stuff out on the porch. I'm extremely sad, but mad about him thinking he can come and go at his convenience. I don't know what to say or do when H comes in Monday morning.