Hi Uphill, I'm sorry to hear about what has happened. As for OM, if it hadn't been 'him' it would just have been someone else. And please don't feel for a moment that he will 'replace' you in your S's life - that truly isn't going to happen.
The big thing I would say is don't approach OM in any way. He is below being worthy of your attention and I would not engage with him at all. He probably has his own issues that mean he gets involved with women who aren't truly available.
As for FB - do take some steps to deal with that one. There is no need for you to be seeing these pics if you don't want to. Looking at FB stuff isn't going to help you just now, so do whatever you need to change this - whether you unfollow someone or similar. I don't really use FB - but I wouldn't do overt (retaliatory) things like unfriending - only behind the scenes ones that limit your exposure to this stuff whilst you're feeling so raw.
Take care my friend xx
Last edited by Sotto; 11/15/1509:06 AM.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
