Quote: that is encouraging, Rottz. I've never know H to be insincere, but then, I would have thought he's have tried harder to get through to me before having an A, too....
You know, I thought the exact same thing. My H is sincere, honest, caring, loving, sensitive. I was TOTALLY blindsided by his actions and inability to "get through to me." Only after the bomb, and after speaking to his mom and to him, did I finally realize that he has a hard time even knowing how to put his emotions into words. I fully blame his having turned to an EA on his inability to function in that respect. I know for a fact that if he had told me he was unhappy, I would have tried to change to make him happy.
I wouldn't take it personally, I decided not to. And I think I'm correct in saying your H is similar to mine.
