Wow, mind is blown 10

[Uphill]

I want to add one thing that really cut. I remained calm through this whole discussion with her but while I'm venting I'm gonna get this out also. The topic of OM came up. We actually talked about him for a while. I want to know who our son is going to be around, I don't think that's too much to ask at this point. This guy and her started as "friends" while we were still together. (He had an agenda and she was too naive). I do honestly believe that. When we started having problems and he got very aggressive in a few different ways and I tried to point it out. Almost like a shark circling. He smelled the trouble at home and was waiting to pounce.

Anyway, I made the comment to her that "don't you think you moved on kinda quickly for needing time and space to figure out what you wanted in life?". Her reply was, "he was there for a shoulder to cry on and (shrugs her shoulders) I could have stopped him but I didn't". How do I even reply to that? I must have had a face like I saw a ghost! It came out of her mouth like it was no different than saying hi to the guy.

Shes not the girl I fell in love with. That girl wasn't a vulnerable sex toy. She was a respectable woman who you had to work for...