Hi Mleigh - I think one of the things that makes your sitch so hard, is that your H does seem so very sweet. There is such an innocence about him. You certainly seem to have a little boy on your hands.

Nice work telling your H your thoughts about the holidays. Keep taking care of you and your son.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced