JellyB- my D has misophonia (reacts to sounds with rage), she also has ocd, OCPD, which is like ocd but she wants other people to follow her rituals, and thyroid disease. Her issues are primarily directed at me and H. She refused to even be in the same room as H for almost a year before he had his "breakdown"- he cannot emotionally cope with her.
My son has general anxiety- primarily directed at D. Although in the last few months he seems to think everything is all my fault as well- he wants me to control D and if I don't/can't he gets very frustrated with me.
It might be hard to find my old threads because I stopped linking them when I went through a phase of paranoia thinking MIL was stalking me online, which has happened before so its not all in my head. But since then I have revealed so much detail anyway so I would be easy to spot. The problem is that I want to be more "anonymous" but this is the absolute best place for me to get support so if I don't share, I don't get the support I need, so that wins out over discretion.
