Still riding the waves

[mleigh4]

Job, I just wanted to add one more thing that you touched on and that is the need for H to experience the feel of being divorced, to feel that he is really losing me and his family. I strongly feel it is time for him to truly see what this has done and what it will be. I think about it so often. I have been way to enabling throughout this whole situation.

The tough part is that I too experience it, but I feel strong enough now...and it just feels right. I also know this really may be what H wants, but either way, it brings us closer to being able to move on with our lives.