Thank you Betsey and Rotzilla for the support and sharing. I so appreciate the encouragement, and Betsey, your input helps me to understand some of where H must be at....I don't know what I would do without you all here on the BB!
Betsey you mentioned being scared. My H has said he is afraid he will give her up and then things will be bad between us again...I have a hard time understanding this, because I know how deeply committed I am to making this better and it seems to me he should be able to see it. Is this the type of thing you feared, or was there something different? If that's too personal a question, I understand and wont be at all offended if you prefer not to answer...I hope my asking isn't offensive, I'm just trying deperately to understand as much as I can where he's coming from.
I cant help but wonder if she isnt a little psycho on him sometimes, and if he's scared of that. I can't put my finger on why I think that--actually come to think of it the emails I've seen from her are so far off the deep end even for a jr. high kid is part of the reason...
