Mozza, I'm so glad to read of how well you are doing. There is much wisdom in your post above. I was interested in your comment about the guy with the prosthetic leg. My signature line was written by a guy who also lost a limb - but found himself. I think that sometimes happens when we lose the 'marriage limb.'

I'm with you on the desire to wish your XW well. There was a long discussion on Caliguy's thread in MLC about forgiveness, which you may find interesting.

Thanks for coming back to update and good luck with everything xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus