At this point...not pursuit. Temp-checking. She wants to make sure you're where she expects you to be. Stop doing that, D. Be elsewhere. I know it's hard, but you DO NOT want to be in the friend zone...that is where you are.

Take forever answering the door. Mess up your hair when you do. Don't invite her in.

Does she only come by when the kids are there?


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti