D...I'm struggling here. You're in the friend-zone. You can't R if you're not getting along, but you've let her put you where you don't want to be. Let's do a temp-check:
Is she flirting with you at all? Is she always dressed nicely around you? Does she seem concerned if she can't reach you? You know, pursuit behavior - multiple missed calls? Does she ask about you? Are you seeing anyone? Where have you been?
Those are pursuit behaviors. Are you getting any of those? Let's see where you are before continuing.
