Hi Betsey....thank you thank you for your input! I feel so out in left field as far as the emotional/thinking processes that someone in an A must be having....
Quote: only because I felt that being miserably married to Mr. Wonderful was not an option anymore, and I found someone who valued me from a variety of perspectives.
that is almost word for word what my H has said....
I believe in my heart that things are much better between us...I havent asked him how he feels in a effort to avoid R talks as much as I can, but he SEEMS much, much more content and is certainly warmer and more pleasant to me. I hope that is because he's happier in our M; I don't think those things can be faked.
I have trouble with patience, waiting for him to end the A and tell me it's over so we can get on with the process of working on the M together. You mentioned your H was about to WA....Did he give you an ultimatum? Obviously you had already decided you wanted to reconcile by that time if he did....
Just want to say I've read your posts to other people before and find them to be really good input.
