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[Avanti]

Ancaire, I am so sorry to know that you are in such pain.

There is much direction toward detachment on this forum, I think it should be more about acceptance and gratitude which leads to detachment. Your life could be so much worse than it is, there are many good things in it, you simply need to refresh how you look at things. Take the time to do so and I promise your life will feel better. Sitch's only have the meaning we give them, so change the meaning you've given your sitch and see what happens.

There is a saying that I recently came across that said the more you push on things the worse they get, I have some things going on with my D that a while ago would have really hurt me, I now see that letting them be and going along with them is so much more empowering than the fight I used to put up and would drain so much energy to achieve very little, if anything.

We all have the power within us to create our future's, it takes determination to keep going regardless of set backs, it takes a plan and it requires goals (1 or 2 no more, otherwise there is too much to focus on) these things alone will bring you what you desire.

Find your inner peace, it is there you simply need to listen for it, and it will guide you. Allow life to take you on its journey, your goals and plans will fit in, allow things to be and accept them with gratitude and sitch's can turn round or move in ways you can't possibly predict. Lean on stuff or try to force your intentions upon something and it will create the opposite.

In the meantime, all I can offer is a big hug and warmth transmitted across the Internet to you.

{{{{{{{{{{Ancaire}}}}}}}}

Take care of yourself and re-evaluate where you are and what you want, believe it can happen and start down the road toward it. Setbacks make us stronger, even though they may hurt like nothing on earth at the time.