My 180 is not talking about our marriage at all. In the past I would always initiate a kiss good bye and a kiss good night. This has stopped all together.
I am a unsure if I should initiate any physical contact at all. Would a gentle rub on the shoulder, or quick stroke of her hand be considered as pursuing. I don't want her to think that I have totally given up on our marriage.
In the past when I could tell she was upset I would ask what was wrong. If I didn't ask she would keep what was bothering her inside be cold towards me. I figured if I could bring the problem to the forefront we could settle the problem sooner. I don't think I ever pressured her to talk. If she didn't want to talk I would walk away.
Recently, I get the sense that when I do say goodbye before I go to work, she is expecting a kiss. It may be wishful thinking but sometimes she almost leans towards looking for a kiss . Not to the point where I turn my head away, as I would never do that but leaning towards me as we say good bye.
I am working on gaining her friendship again then hoping we can take the next step in rebuilding what we once had in our marriage
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
